Do You Have Sex with Clients?

In short, no.

Last week I was having dinner alone and was seated next to a couple celebrating their 42nd wedding anniversary. It was super sweet and they were both gorgeous. They must have married very young. Our conversation turned to what ‘we do’, as conversations seem to and when I told them his ears perked up and hers went back. You may need to know something about horse body language to get this so here’s a tip: interested horses put their ears forward, grumpy horses pin them back.

So. GREAT start!

She asked if I am a sexual surrogate and I told her no, I am a coach. I work with people and couples to help work through difficulties such as health problems, emotional blocks, and lack of knowledge as they become more deeply embodied and learn to accept and enjoy pleasurable experiences in their bodies. I did not even get the opportunity to brush up against the Blueprints.

I am a coach, not a courtesan. I am not a sexual surrogate nor am I a hands-on tantrika. I am a coach. Period.

It’s interesting where people’s minds go, isn’t it?

Sex coaching is just like any other kind of coach and while I fully support sex work and sex workers as a valid profession that should be safe and acceptable, that is not what I do.